The New Year is a lovely time when I look back at my life for the past 365 (give or take a week or two) days. I enjoy resolutions immensely. Something about making demands for yourself to ensure you keep growing is pretty awesome in my book. At the end of the year, I take stock on how well I did either in completing my goals or in deciding why I didn’t want to complete them anymore. I have a list of goals I didn’t make this year and, overall, I’m accepting of my “failure.”
I don’t even have the complete list of the resolutions I made at the start of 2019. I’ll write up a list of the ones I remember and how they went this year.
Read 150 books
Managed 140, but as I mention in my Advocating for Reading Less post I am totally cool with not meeting this goal.
Read 50 nonfiction books
I learned so much from the 44 nonfiction books I read that I don’t feel bad about not getting those other six this year.
Read three to four books each month on a specific topic
I failed at this mainly because I hadn’t decided to get rid of unnecessary books and still felt burdened by their presence. I felt I couldn’t look elsewhere to find books and when I couldn’t find a suitable book in any of the local libraries, I gave up rather than pay for an inexpensive book because I didn’t want to bring in any more books I might ignore. I will most likely make a similar challenge this year, but it will probably be by two-month increments so I have more time to find books and more information on each topic.
Weigh 135 pounds
My blue-ribbon loss this year is that I didn’t lose weight (I even gained a bit back from my prior loss). However, I have learned more about eating healthy and about taking care of my body both in the gym and in the kitchen. I think I’m on a much better track this year than I have been in almost a decade regarding health and healthy weight loss.
Do three things that terrify me
I did quite well in this regard. I challenged myself to talk to strangers, admit I was wrong, have conversations with people who disagreed with me rather than just ignore or hate them. I drove to Mexico and spent a week relaxing with my husband. I had thyroid surgery.
Have $5000 in savings
Yeah, did I mention I had thyroid surgery? I didn’t do too bad with this, but I definitely could have done better. I found a budget system that works for me. I use everydollar.com to handle my budget and have gotten better at using it each month, enough so that I can say 2020 will be a very successful year with the budgeting and the savings.
Six posts a month for the blog
Yeah, I almost made that and if you go by averages then I totally met this goal. Otherwise, I only missed a month (not counting March as that was the first month I had the blog). I also decided to stop relying so much on the numbers of it. I want each post to matter because it shares something with my audience, not because it adds another notch to my belt.
I had way more goals. An almost excessive amount. Many of them I didn’t meet, others I met at least halfway. I’ve changed a lot this year, I’ve grown in some areas and regressed in others, but I would like to say overall it has been a positive change. In 2020 I will have some overarching goals for the year, but many of my goals will be micro-resolutions. If you’re unfamiliar with this term the idea is to choose a resolution you can stick to for thirty days and choose twelve such resolutions. This allows you to relax certain willpower muscles and flex others which makes it much more likely that you will make it through your resolutions.
I’ll be making a post with my 2020 resolutions/micro resolutions soon.
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